"I’m constantly complaining about boys Not being mature Enough for me. I got the kids Out of my system. Now being a businesswoman Dominates My Time, and I’m Rarely impressed with guys."
..I completely Agree!
"Having HIGH standards doesn’t make you selfish nor bitchy, it just makes you Wiser than everybody else. Really tho.. There’s NO space for shortcomings, and there’s nothing wrong with Knowing what you Want and Need. ..Either you got it or you got it, it’s as simple as that."
Note to self:
Take chances. Give Love another try.
Keep Faith Alive
“Sometimes its hard to imagine why
life throws us curves in the road that
suddenly changes everything from what we had
imagined it would be. While there are no maps to
steer us through this rough terrain, there are certain
assurances to help guide our way.
Having Faith, perhaps, is the Greatest Assurance of all -
faith not only in the strange workings of the universe,
but In yourself. Have faith that you are strong, capable,
deserving, and wise. Have faith that roadblocks are often
stepping stones in clever disguise, and that you’re EXACTLY
where you’re meant to be - no matter how difficult it
may be to believe at any given moment.
Have faith that Life is a Series of Lessons. There are
messages to help you understand the meaning of life
if you work long and hard enough to receive them.
Have faith that however painful it may see at times,
you are uncovering Truths of immeasurable worth.
Most of all, have faith that you are headed in the right
direction - and that at the end of every storm, you will
find waiting for you ..purpose, meaning, answers, and light..”
I was enlightened by this excerpt from this book I’m currently reading, and I thought I’d share it ..to maybe help bring you some peace in mind before you go to sleep. .That’s all, Goodnight!
When we commit to sharing LIFE with anyone (family members, lovers, husbands, wives, and friends) it is INEVITABLE that we will hurt one another over and over.
This cycle tends to put us in a state of protectionism where we focus more on how to protect ourselves from the very people we actually want to be close to. We can’t put up shields and expect that closeness or intimacy will be bred from it no matter how justifiable the reasoning.
My biggest misperception has been the belief that we all know how to love and treat one another from the start, which can make it very difficult to be understanding when hurtful things happen and not to take it personally.
My understanding now is we are here LEARNING how to love and be our greatest selves ON one another.
Life and the people in it are not meant to be perfect. My understanding now is that we are in a constant cycle of learning, expanding, and reaching for our greatest selves together through this trying but glorious journey called life.
“The best protection we have is becoming the best versions of our selves.”
YEAHP. Don’t matter how long it takes me, I Will Be Who I’ve been aiming to BE.
Make every second count.
You thought me well.
I’ve never felt at peace With Myself, and By Myself in a goood minuuute, and I can honestly say that Today is the start ( :
"Once you realize that I’m meant for you, I hope it isn’t too late."
"Go for someone who is not only proud to have you but will also take every risk just to be with you."
Know Your Roots
“Remember! People without the knowledge of their past history, origin and culture is like a tree without roots.” ++Tatak Ng Apat Na Alon
I believe that Having the passion of learning about my heritage and culture, and Actually being active about it will lead me to finding peace within myself, and to Truly embrace WHO and Where I’m from.
I really thought I knew “enough”, but man. was I wrong. . I’m learning soo many new facts already, and it’s barely the beginning of this amazing journey. ..and trust me, I’m quite excited to keep on diggin’ for more.
"Hi my son. i miss you very much. i hope you had a great game today and i know you played well cause you play with heart. Thats something i didnt have to teach you. you were born prepared for battle."
To: Lole, From: Siaosi
Randomly popped out on the right side of my facebook, and thought This message is one of the Most Beautiful thing I’ve Ever read.
"I am doing realy well. Living my dreams, loving my blessings, and learning my lessons."
yeahp. learning from it all.